Tuesday, June 21, 2022

Week 41 - Mountain Goats Raking

Hey Everyone, all is well here. This email is going to be long

1. Car Wash
2. Mountain Goats Raking 
3. The work
4. Spiritual thought - May 29th Sacrament Talk

1. We had a car wash activity this week with the young men. It was a good time. Some members were loaded with some sweet car washing gear like a power washer, and they got a whole water hose system and everything. They were doing it to raise money for the YM camp. I thought it was interesting that they decided to do the car wash for free, and then people could donate at a booth after getting dried off if they wanted to. I think they raised around 2k if I remember  correctly. But it was a good time. I got sprayed a lot by young men who couldn't properly handle a hose but it was ok. The cool air from that was actually kinda nice and I got a little trunky because it reminded me of swimming. And my family is at Park city swimming this week. But, it's okay. The soap we used smelled like banana Popsicles so it all worked out. But I just keep thinking about swimming. I also just put on sunblock for our P day activity and it just made me time travel back to when we put on sunblock for swimming. But it's ok

2. We had a service yesterday with a lady who had been in contact with Missionaries previously. She has this huge hill behind her house (There are a lot of hills here), and she wanted us to rake the dead weeds up there. I was so confused at first just because I'm like there's no way she's talking about that hill, but she was. It wasn't very fun. It was hot, and we were standing on this hill like mountain goats, trying to rake out these dead weeds or something. I also just really hate the heat and we were getting pretty cooked up there. So I was sweating, and my nose was acting up and getting runny so I was sneezing, and it was all just a mess. I was not having a good time, and was murmuring internally. It took 2 hours but we got the section of it done that she asked. There was still this other side of it but she didn't bring it up. I was kinda just hoping we wouldn't have to do it. We went over and talked to her after we were done and she opened up about a lot of stuff. She lives alone after the death of her mom, and has definitely experienced trauma in her life. She has a lot more work to do and was really grateful we came. She had this whole other section of it that we hadn't done and she didn't want to ask us to do it. In her own words, it was because she could tell we didn't "work on a farm back home". But as she talked about a lot of the things she has been going through I thought back to the chapters in Matthew that I've been reading. Specifically all the times the scriptures say that Jesus has compassion on others. I think I had read the end of Matthew 20 the night before. So, we offered to come again, and are going to be going over weekly. I felt, and still feel bad for murmuring, even though it was indeed not fun at all. But it feels good to be helping her. I'm sure the Savior did a lot for others that the natural man wouldn't want to. We know he didn't really want to perform the Atonement. But because of His love he does what is best for us according to God's will. So that was a cool learning experience this week.

3. The work is going pretty bueno. Our main person is part of a member family who's been meeting with Missionaries for 25 years. We had a good talk with her about a lot of stuff: Prayer, other religions having truth, and if it was good. Her main concern is that she doesn't want to commit because she's had really powerful experiences with other religions too, and so she feels like she's giving it up. But she has faith in the Church, she just likes other religions too. Our other friends are doing ok too. We had a meeting with our new friend William this week. We met him when we stopped by what we thought was an inactive member's home. They moved but we talked with him and went by later to teach the Restoration. It went really well and he said he'd get started on the Book of Mormon. That was on Wednesday and we haven't heard from him yet but we remain hopeful. Other than that things are going good. Brenda and Evert in my last area are getting baptized on July 9th is the plan. Since the mission is trying to Crack on gas because of gas prices I was worried I wouldn't be able to go. Elder Hodes had a baptism that he wanted to go to, but the APs said no because he wasn't on the program. I have learned from his misfortune and Elder Hatch is going to give me an assignment on the program so I get to be there. Mwahaha ðŸ˜ˆ

4. For my spiritual thought I decided to share my talk from May 29th. It was also in my last area. I finally typed it out on my phone (it was all on paper). I'll probably do my other talk next week . Disclaimer: I did edit some things as I was typing it out again, because I wanted to fix mistakes that bothered me, or just rephrase things to sound better. But it all has the same meaning as the original.

- My topic today is on "We can experience God's wonders if we have faith in Jesus Christ". I wanted to start by looking at Elder Soares talk from this past General Conference "In Awe of Christ and His Gospel". In his talk, Elder Soares defines wonder as "The sensation of emotion, awe, or amazement, common to all who wholeheartedly center their lives on the Savior and His teachings, and humbly recognize His presence in their lives". This awe and wonder truly is joyful. It is full of love and is accompanied by the power of the Holy Ghost, and is a natural result of centering our lives on Christ. One of my favorite scriptures that defines this wonder is 1 Nephi 11:22-23. This is when Nephi is seeing the vision of the Tree of Life that His father Lehi saw. An Angel asks him to explain what the tree represents, and he responds saying "Yea, it is the love of God, which sheddeth itself abroad in the hearts of the children of men; wherefore, it is the most desirable above all things. And he spake unto me, saying: Yea, and the most joyous to the soul". The love of God really is the most joyous to the soul. It is a joy that the Lord wants us to have. It gives us love and strength to serve Him and others, and is central to our conversion and discipleship. 
- Later in Elder Soares's talk he warns about spiritual apathy, which he defines as something we experience when we "take the Gospel for granted, lose our excitement for the gospel, and as a result, distance ourselves from God". I would like to share my own experiences with spiritual apathy. Being raised in the church, the gospel is something I have been taught my whole life. But I wanted to know if what I was being taught was true. I wanted to know if the Book of Mormon was true, and if Joseph Smith was a prophet. While I can say that this desire was genuine, I did not take the initiative to gain a testimony. I did not work for it. I had read the Book of Mormon around 3x growing up, but my heart was not in it. I didn't study with intent, ponder the things I was learning, and I probably couldn't even tell you where I was reading or what I was learning. I had some testimony, and experienced the light of Christ. I had had sustaining experiences like receiving my Patriarchal Blessing and going to the temple for my Endowment. But I lacked faith and in wonder of Jesus Christ, and I definitely felt distant from God. Quite frankly it was a really pathetic state, and Elder Soares explains very well what it was like: I had taken the gospel for granted, lost my excitement for the Gospel, and as a result distanced myself from God
- This is basically where I was up until about 9 months ago when I got set apart as a Missionary. It's almost like there's something special about serving a mission. When else is your life so structured to be centered on the Savior and His gospel? It was in this state that I began to invest in the Book of Mormon. I had been given 1 hour of personal study everyday, and could spend time in its words. It really felt like I was reading it for the first time. Little by little my testimony grew, and I realized how divine the Book of Mormon was. It was physical evidence that I could hold in my hands to know if the church was the church of Jesus Christ. This new environment and perspective also brought new challenges. These challenges made the Book of Mormon a refuge. I was humbled and turned to its words for answers to my questions and struggles. As I learned I ruled out the possibility of Joseph Smith being the author, and knew it was the very word of God. There was no other explanation for how it came to be and for the Spirit that came with it. I gained a strong testimony of its truthfulness. The scriptures and stories filled me with joy. I cannot adequately express the way I felt reading about the Saviors visit to the America's in 3 Nephi. I learned more about His sacrifice and redeeming love. The Book of Mormon really is Another Testament of Jesus Christ. 
- Before I continue, I would like to share a quick personal testimony of Missionary work. I have never had a more rewarding or challenging 9 months. It has brought me so much light and I can feel joy everyday in the work. If anyone missed the emphasis from General Conference, or if you need another reminder, I would like to share my testimony of the importance of Missionary work. I promise that participating in this work will be one of the greatest things you'll ever do. In every mission call, the First Presidency promises: "Greater joy and more blessings than you have yet experienced await you as you humbly and prayerfully serve the Lord in this labor of love among His children". I promise and can testify from my own experience that this is true. The blessings from serving the Lord are real, and I invite you all to serve when and where you can. Along with that, I would like to invite every able young man to prepare to serve a full-time mission. 
- Sorry, I just wanted to say that. I'll now go back to my topic. Alongside gathering Israel, there are many things that fill us with the Lord's awe and wonder. These things include attending the Temple regularly, studying the scriptures and words of living Prophets, and sincere prayer towards Heavenly Father. Brothers and Sisters we will experience spiritual droughts in our lives. Some of you are experiencing them now. But in these times remember that the root word of disciple is discipline. When you do not feel the joy of the Gospel or love of Christ please do not slow down. Keep trying, praying and doing your best. Do not deny yourself further light or love in any degree. Acting in discipline is an act of faith. And as we exercise this discipline the wonder of the Gospel will follow. Brothers and Sisters may we never lose the light and the joy of Jesus Christ. During darker times I pray we continue to have the Humility and discipline to do what is right. I bear my testimony that the Book of Mormon is true, that President Russell M. Nelson is the Lord's prophet today, and that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is Christ's New Testament church restored. The light of these things are real. As Alma said in Alma 32:35 "Oh then, is not this real? Yea because it is light; and whatsoever is light, is good; because it is discernible, therefore ye must know that it is good". The light of the Restored Church and Gospel are real and discernible, and they are freely available to us. I bear my testimony of the divinity of Jesus Christ, the very Savior of the world. And I say these things in His name, Jesus Christ, Amen.

Sorry this email is so long. You make me happy if you read it all. I hope you all are doing well and would love to hear from any of you. Love you much!

- Elder Wride

Pictures:
1. Temple trip this morning
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2. Temple trip pt. 2
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3. A member we visited has a house on a really big hill
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4. Car Wash. The Elders Quorum 2nd counselor did me dirty. He called "Elder!", in the middle of my intense scrubbing for a picture. I turned my head instinctively 
without having the reaction time to give a better smile.
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Tuesday, June 14, 2022

Week 40 - Outhouse on the Hill

Hello from Lakeside California! Hope you are all doing fabulous.

1. Lakeside and Outhouse on the Hill
2. Maggie
3. Spiritual thought

1. Lakeside is definitely a unique area. It reminds me of the college area in some ways. The people are interesting. The night before transfers we were at a member lesson at my last area. When I told them I was going to Lakeside the dad said "The toothbrush must've been invented in Lakeside. It would explain why it's called a toothbrush instead of a teethbrush". I haven't really had any super weird interactions but I've seen some interesting people. Nothing too noteworthy though. There was a man yesterday who was having a good time chasing pigeons at the park. He was probably on drugs. The reason for the title of the talk is stupid but it's the best I got right now. Basically there's a lot of hills in the area which is really cool. It feels like we're kind of enclosed around mountains and hills. Our apartment is next to this hill that has a tiny building on it that I don't know what it is. But it's been my landmark for where the apartment is as I'm getting oriented to the new area. I have just decided that it's an outhouse. My new comp is Elder Hodes. He's kind of a weird dude but he gets stuff done which is good. I guess he's just an awkward guy. The poor man dropped his drink at Panda express today too.

2. Maggie is one of our friends that I met this week. They haven't been able to get a lesson with her in a while. We talked about the Book of Mormon and it went well. I have been more anxious than usual to bear my testimony with people, so it felt really good being able to talk about the Book of Mormon because there are not very many people that want to hear it. We read the introduction with her and she said she's open to it being true, and we invited her to read and challenge it which she said she would do. It's so funny though because she's literally exactly like Dory from Finding Nemo. I don't know how to explain it. But she kind of looks like Dory if she was a real person, and just has that demeanor. 

3. I gave another talk this Sunday in the new ward. It's what I get for asking the Bishops 2nd counselor for a lesson. I was planning to have it included for my spiritual thought, but it's all written out on paper and I don't have it with me to type it out. I'll include it one of these weeks. I'll also include the talk I gave May 29th which also isn't typed out yet. But those are 2 backup spiritual thoughts for the future I guess. For today, I'm just going to bum off the one I made on facebook a few days ago. I'll add a few more details. In Moroni 7:48 it says: 

"Wherefore, my beloved brethren, pray unto the Father with all the energy of heart, that ye may be filled with this love, which he hath bestowed upon all who are true followers of his Son, Jesus Christ; that ye may become the sons of God; that when he shall appear we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is; that we may have this hope; that we may be purified even as he is pure. Amen"

I really like this verse and this chapter in the Book of Mormon. I've been studying and thinking a lot about Charity and what it means. My favorite part is when it says "when he shall appear we shall be like Him", and "be purified even as he is pure". The pure love of Christ is the defining attribute of Christ. And when we do what the verses say earlier, to pray with all the energy of our hearts, we can be filled with this love. And it is purifying to us. True and pure love removes all feelings of despair, sorrow, guilt, anger, or any form of wickedness or ungodliness. I can't really comprehend the kind of love the Savior has. In my experience some of the closest things I can compare it to include the love I have for Him, my family members, friends, etc. Back in the MTC we had an experience called "Go and Do". Basically we were given like 2 hours to learn about the Love of God in silence. It was really cool. I was in one of the rooms in the new buildings and I was studying, and praying, trying to feel or understand God's love. It was hard because I didn't feel like I was getting anything. I decided to take a break and listen to some music. One of my favorite songs is "Consider the Lilies". I put on headphones and just tried to clear my head. It was nice and part way through the song, it says "Consider the sweet, tender children Who must suffer on this earth. The pains of all of them He carried from the day of His birth". I started crying a little because I was a little bit homesick at the time. I was thinking about my family back home and those little kids that are dear to my heart. I thought about how much I love them and want the best for them. And in that moment, I really felt how much more God loves us. How the love I feel for them is not comparable. It was really cool. And just writing this email now, I am just noticing the second part that says "The pains of all them He carried from the day of His birth". That's so cool thinking about the Savior's love for us. I love you all and am grateful for all your support.

Anyway, I am doing well. It's weird how much I love doing missionary work at the same time as not wanting to. I can't explain it. It feels good, but I'm also still internally not wanting to work a lot of the time. It's better than before, where I knew what I was doing was good, but I didn't really feel the joy of it. So I was pretty much running on grit. Now it's easier but still takes discipline. I hope you are all doing well and thanks for checking in. Love you all!

- Elder Wride

Pictures:
1-3. Church pics
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5. From the park we proselyte at20220613_193916.jpg
6. Got this text this week too. It's because I hit a car like 7 weeks ago. If you want to see it, it was the morning I sent Week 33 - "I Will Kill You". I haven't driven since voluntarily, and I don't think it's necessary to confiscate my tiwi card. It's already deactivated. It makes me feel like a criminal or something.
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Tuesday, June 7, 2022

Week 39 - Kid 13

It may not seem that cool, but 13 times 3 equals 39

1. Transfer News
2. Kid 13
3. The Marshalls
4. Brenda and Evert
5. Spiritual thought: Prayer

1. We had transfers today. I am leaving Otay Lakes and am now in the Lakeside ward. To give a brief run-down, here are all my areas thus far. I served in Poway for 6 weeks (1 Transfer), and then got moved to the College area around SDSU and was there for 3 transfers. I then spent 2 in Otay and am now in Lakeside, so this is my 4th area. I thought it would've been kind of cool to get transferred to being a Zone Leader with one of my other former comps, but didn't really think it would happen. And then on Transfer Doc Sunday, we got a call from President Gimenez during a lesson. And President only calls you on T-doc sunday for 2 reasons: 1 You're training a new missionary, or 2- You're becoming a ZL. I thought it might actually happen for about 15 minutes. We talked to him after the lesson and he told us Elder Hatch would be training. And I got demoted back to Junior Comp, which is ok. My new comp is Elder Hodes and he seems like a cool guy. He said when he first saw I was his new comp, his old comp said "Elder Wride? That's the guy who hit a car!" Yes, at the last transfer meetup I hit a car 6 weeks ago, and apparently people won't forget about it for a while. It got brought up at least 3 other times today while we were at transfers.

2. It isn't really my news, but in case anyone didn't know, my Mom had a new kid last Tuesday! Her name is Katharine Wride. I got to call on Tuesday night which was nice and got to be there. However, the family was pretty distracted so you could say I wasn't completely there. But it's awesome. A lot of members found out and I appreciated all the congratulations from them. Mom really is a powerhouse. 

3. On Sunday we had a visit with the Marshalls who are an inactive family. It's pretty much just the Mom and the Dad but they're awesome and super friendly. I'm not 100% sure how they got baptized though because they don't know a lot. Last week when we were there they asked us about what temples were for, so we showed them the Washington D.C. tour video. They also needed a refresher on a lot of principles and are basically investigators. I think they're inactive just because of all the commandments we have like tithing, word of wisdom, etc. They got baptized some years ago, but went inactive shortly after. But we've had like 3 visits with them and they've always been friendly with missionaries. I'm not a super social person, and don't always enjoy being around people, but this couple were genuinely fun people to be around and I'll miss them. On Sunday they were asking a lot of questions about home and it led us to watching the House video with them. They really liked it, so good job Ethan. I'm not sure how far we'll be able to go with them, but they're really cool people.

4. Also had my last lesson with Brenda and Evert yesterday. Their progression has been kinda slow but they're still in the right direction. They just don't remember a lot of things that we teach them. But I think they'll be able to be put on date soon. We read the story of the tree of life with them and it was really good. I hope to be able to visit them again one day, and that I'll be able to come down and see them if they decide to be baptized. It was kinda sad saying goodbye that last time but they're in good hands. I should've got a picture or something but I don't have one. I'll try again for their baptism or something

5. I'm running short on time, but I wanted to give a quick spiritual thought on prayer. Some months ago, I included in my email the section on Prayer in the Bible Dictionary. Since then and especially this last transfer I've really been trying to improve my prayers. I feel too often they're just a check the box type thing and my heart is not really in it. But something I realized is that prayer is a form of work. I still sometimes don't feel like praying and struggle to focus completely. But I really have been trying to pray to God with all the energy of my heart. It's been really cool to grow closer to God in that kind of way but it's hard to explain. What was really cool was one evening I was on my phone scrolling facebook. It was around 9:30 PM and I wanted to keep my night routine more edifying (That's also something I've been working on). So, I decided to put it away, right in my journal, and wind down for bed. I then went into the closet to pray and I have some post-it notes and papers on the wall that help me stay focused and make it more complete of a prayer. I didn't really feel like praying and kind of just wanted to go to bed, but I wanted to want to pray. So, I started by asking for strength and focus and gave a pretty long prayer. I prayed for a lot of things that I don't remember. Family, friends, investigators, ward members, myself, etc. I prayed that I would be able to receive the countenance of Jesus Christ and become more cheerful. I also prayed for strength to resist temptation, have the Holy Ghost with me, and probably a bunch of other things including a report of the day. It was just a prayer I put effort in. After I was just silent for a while, trying to listen for the Spirit to make it more of a conversation. No words came or anything like that, but I just felt really good inside. I felt like the Lord was grateful that I had put in effort to talk to Him. I can't completely describe it, but it felt really good. It was like God asked us to pray not for him, but for me. I should be the one thanking him for prayer and for my connection to Him. That was a really cool experience, and I have since then worked on putting more effort into prayer. My invitation to you all is to seek ways to improve your personal prayers and make them more meaningful. It really does fill us with the Love of God.

Anyway, I think that's all for this week. I love you all mucho!
- Elder Wride

Pictures:
1. Calling the fam to see the new baby
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2. Another one
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3. Finished the service from last week
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4. Mission leadership for the Zone
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5. Our district
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6. Our Pinewood derby car for the activity that I'm missing out on tonight
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7. Cute photo
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8. I didn't know he was taking a picture this morning
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Tuesday, May 31, 2022

Week 38 - Welcome to the Neighborhood

Good day everyone! Well get right in

1. Exchanges and being a DL
2. "Welcome to Neighborhood"
3. Sacrament meeting

1. On Wednesday we went on exchanges with the Zone Leaders. A lot of the focus was on the zone and the district and what we could do. It was a really good exchange. I've been thinking about how I've liked being a District leader, and overall, I'm not sure. It hasn't been quite what I expected, but I don't know what I expected. I guess I'm just not sure how well I'm helping the district and being an example. It's still good. I just heard it was a lot of fun, and I wouldn't say I has had much fun because a lot of the people in our district are a little more wild, so I've felt like I need to be more Mr. Business if that makes sense so we can get things done.

2. After a lesson on Sunday we were walking and then this random lady pulled up and rolled down her window. She yells out asking us if we represent the community. We were like "Sure I guess?" She then talked about the hill we were next to is really fun for kids and we're like ok cool. She then said "Welcome to the Neighborhood!". She then asked if we knew the name of the school to which we turned around and read it. She said if we don't know the name of the school here nobody will talk to us. She also welcomed us to the neighborhood again. She also said she worked at that school and then once again welcomed us to the neighborhood. She had cars behind her so she had to go, but it was a pretty interesting interaction. We kind of hope she doesn't work at that school, because there were certain signs she was drunk or something. She said Welcome to the Neighborhood I think at least 5 or 6 times at random times during our interaction.

3. Church went well. We had 6 of our friends come! Aidyn, Alexis and McKinley. We also had Brenda and Evert come for their 7th week streak. And Remigio came! We told them we were speaking and so his wife dragged him along and we sat with him. It was cool because we had Rem on our right, Brenda and Evert on our left, and the other 3 were with their fellowshipper family in front of us. I wanted to include my sacrament talk, but it's a bit long and I'm running out of time. I talked on "We can experience God's wonders if we have faith in Jesus Christ'', and I talked about Elder Soares' talk from the April 2022 General Conference "In Awe of Christ and His gospel". 

I love you all! Sorry I'm a little out of time but I'm doing good. Mom is going into labor tonight for kid 13 and so I'll include that next week. I'm so excited!

- Elder Wride

Pictures:
1. Exchanges
2. Service
3. He fed us too. It was a Ukrainian beet dish and was really good.

Tuesday, May 24, 2022

Week 37 - Volleyball

Hello everyone. Time is passing by weirdly. I wouldn't say that the days feel like weeks and the weeks feel like days. But they both go by pretty quickly and before I know it I'm at the next P-day. And then the next, and the next, etc. 

1. Isabella Baptism
2. Volleyball
3. Remigio
4. Other business

1. We had a baptism this week. Sorry, not in our area, but in one of the other wards here. Which baptisms are a good thing to invite friends to. So, we invited ours, but only Brenda came. It was still really good though. She was running late and the program had already started. Then the talk on Baptism started, and the baptism was about to happen. She texted saying she was here and we hurried to the parking lot to see where she was. We walked back in just as it was starting and Brenda was able to see it. It was good and she really enjoyed it. Brenda and Evert are doing really well with desire and feeling the spirit when we talk, but they don't really follow through on reading or remembering what we teach. They came to church for the 6th time in a row which is good. I'm sure they would accept a baptismal invite, but I don't think they are ready. 

2. We also started playing volleyball this week to find people. We have a group we found online that had around 100 people. Most non-members. So, we started it back up again to try and meet some new people. We had our first meet up yesterday. Unfortunately not a whole lot of non-members actually showed up, but we're trying to get things going again. But we did have like 8 other people show up which were YSA I think. But I heard two of them could've been non-members. But they all seem to be in the same circle of friends I guess.

3. Remigio is doing well (Bro Rodriguez in the district). Our past couple lessons have gone well. The main issue is that Sister Rodriguez feeds us a lot of Filipino food. In our last lesson we read Alma 32 12-18 ish. Which was pretty good and Rem was engaged pretty well. We were talking about how much more blessed they are who are humble without being compelled to be humble. He used the analogy of how much better it is for parents and the kids, when the kids just do what they know is right. And he agreed that God works in the same way. Which was sort of a check-mate moment for us. At our first lesson he basically said he's content with Catholicism and so if God wants him to read the BofM or something, he should make it more clear. Once he realized he was trapped he was more quiet. But I think we got him and I hope he wrestles with that for a while. He likes movies, so we're planning on having him watch the Restoration movie. It will be good. 

4. Other than that things are going well. Linda and her kids are still progressing slowly. We learned that Alexis is afraid of the water to get baptized so she doesn't feel ready yet. Aidyns is doing well and actually went camping this weekend with the ward, which was good for him. And Linda is still ghosting us and not really engaged. We'll have to have an honest conversation with her next time we meet.

We also went to Coronado island today. It was good. I didn't like being that close to the coast because it felt like we were on vacation, but as a Missionary I have a mindset of not being able to relax essentially. Plus, we couldn't go on the sand. But I love you all! Mom is due next week for kid 13. Email me if you would like because I would love to hear from you. Have a good week.

- Elder Wride

Pictures:
1. Shot at a Mall that we go to
2. Biking coronado
3. Sister Rodriguez food
4. Eating with a member
5. Volleyball
6. The car



Tuesday, May 17, 2022

Week 36 - Karaoke Jam Sessions

Hey good people, it's been a pretty good week.

1. Jam Sesh pt. 1
2. Jam Sesh pt. 2
3. Work update

1. We had another lesson with Remigio this week. To refresh your memory, he is the Filipino man in the District, and is still being taught. He's pretty catholic, but all of his family are members and his kids are going/have gone on missions. Well this week we went by and while we were talking he brought up a Karaoke set. So, he shows us this probably 15 year old Karaoke set that he has set up with the TV and Luke 3 foot speakers and all. Before we know it he's singing Karaoke and performing for us. He also gave us a try. We think it was good for helping him open up more I guess. We then talked for a little bit and learned about his testimony which was good. That was on Thursday. We went over again Sunday for an actual lesson which could've gone better. We taught the Restoration, and his daughter taught some of it too for mission prep. It was kind of weird. Basically, his logic is that Joseph wouldn't have been confused if he didn't attend all those different churches. I guess he thinks any church is good, and he's staying catholic because he's always been catholic. We invited him to pray about what God would have him do and we'll see how that goes. 

2. We had another jam session with a returning member. It also wasn't planned. Basically this Member still believes but just hasn't been coming to church because of work. He lives on someone's property which is kind of weird. It's like a mini house on someone's front lawn I guess. It looks like a nice shed but he lives in it, with his bed and everything. It's kind of weird but I guess he has something figured out with the homeowners. So he wanted to feed us lunch too so he bought a little thing of rotisserie chicken, some potato salad and bread. It was nice and we all ate off this tiny table. It was sweet because we knew it was his best so it touched me. He also has a piano in the room and a guitar and asked if we could play. My comp Elder Ruske played (we were on exchanges) so he played piano, bro Riqueros played guitar and I sang. It was actually really cool that we were on exchanges for that day because Elder Ruske is a really good piano player and Bro Riqueros really enjoyed the jam session. We played Beatles music. I am disappointed in myself for not taking pictures but I'll try next time if it happens again. 

3. Our people are doing good. Brenda and Everts main thing keeping them from progressing is remembering things. They don't seem to remember a lot of the things we teach at previous lessons. But they remember things they read very well, so we're just trying to get them to do that more. They've been doing good on that though, but yeah. We also just got them set up on FamilySearch and it's been awesome for them. Linda is still in the same position where she's not really progressing and ghosting us. But we're still working with her two kids Aidyn and Alexis, but they might not get baptized until next month. 

Well I think that's basically it. I love all of you guys!
- Elder Wride

Pics + Video
1. Service
2. Zone Conference
3. Zone Conference pt 2
4. Zone Conference again
5. Elder Hatch got his own Roctopus

Tuesday, May 10, 2022

Week 35 - I Almost Got in Another Fight

 Hola good people. I'm pretty low energy right now but I'll do my best


1. Baby Godzillas
2. Second time we almost got in a fight
3. "Where were you when we were sacrificing this family?"

1. There's this lady we've done service for up in spring valley with our district. She's a super nice non-member and we pulled some cactus bushes, and other things. The reason for Baby Godzillas is that there are a bunch of lizards in her backyard that freak her out and that's what she calls them. It was super cool just because she was so grateful for all the service we did to the point of tears. She also talked about how there's a light in us and we said a prayer with her. She said next time she wants to hear all our testimonies. It would be really cool to see her progress.

2. Quick story was one morning as we were walking to the gym in our complex there was this mid 20s guy walking and shouting from a distance. I debated whether or not we should walk past him, because he looked a little crazy. That's something you would see a lot in my last area, but less here because it's more wealthy. I was also kind of surprised he was here because it's a really nice complex. He wasn't homeless though. Anyway, as we walked up to him he was crying and he looked at us asking us if we had a problem while we were just trying to walk past in peace. He then started calling us the n word and we just kinda walked away saying we didn't have a problem. He dared us to look back while he was walking away, but we didn't. We had hydro flasks in our hands and I would have given it to him if he tried.

3. Funny quote from this week was "Where were you when we were sacrificing this family?". We played this game called Sacrifice at a member lesson. It was actually the Bahr Family who are my relatives we found out a couple weeks ago. Anyway, the game basically gives you 3 cards with a bunch of stuff like "beauty", "church", etc. and the cards gradually get more important and gospel related. And the family has to decide on one card to give up. It goes all the way up to the Atonement. Well, at one point the family had to decide between "Family", "Prophets and Apostles" and the last one might have been scriptures. Anyway, they decided to get rid of the family but the dad wasn't paying attention. He later pointed out that scriptures maybe could've gone since scriptures are kind of the teachings of prophets and apostles. The mom was upset in a funny way realizing they gave up their family a little soon. It was funny. But the last cards are normally the Atonement and Family. The point of the game is to point out that everything goes back to the Atonement. I'm currently working on an essay about the Atonement that I might include next week. It's been a really cool assignment from President.

Love you all! Hope you're doing well and I would love to hear from you!
Elder Wride

Pictures
1. Member feeding us
2. Another member feeding us. I dont think I'm gaining weight though
3. Elder Hatch wanted to try a wide lense shot
4. We switched out the rav because of the dent left in it a couple weeks ago
5. Felt cute at the temple today 

Week 102.5 - The End

My dear friends, I am writing to you from the comforts of my home, Sandy Utah. I am no longer Elder, but Brother Wride. I just landed in Uta...